How to let a woman give you head 101
First was complaining because his wife hates going down on him. I told him that's his fault. I told him there are certain guys we hate doing it for, and certain guys that we look forward to it. It's all in his participation. After I sent the e-mail I thought it might be a pretty entertaining post. So here ya go...well he can not just lay back and close his eyes. that's the worst, we know you're enjoying it, but damn, participate a little. guys are usually very quiet in bed, so when you do that, you might as well be asleep. it's good play with my hair a lot, and rub my head, not just trying to hold it all up so he could see... but do it to make me feel good, and also keep it out of my face so i don't keep having to mess with it, never asked me to get a ponytail holder. make eye contact with me, don't just stare at the act itself, and smile... like a genuine, "god i love you" (at least at this moment) kind of smile. that's awesome. be open to trying new things, like the ice, and mints and new techniques that i just happen to think of at the time. never push my head down further than i want. let me have the control. i know when i'm going to gag, sometimes i try to work to get a little further past that point... but it's not cool when you're shoved down and choke. another thing, is personally, i love to see a guy squirm. love it. that's like a pat on the back to me. i can also tell when he's about to lose it, so i play with the breaking point a little. i go as far as i can go without actually getting there, then back off for a little bit so he can compose himself just a little... then go at it again full force. some guys make me stop when i'm doing that, i hate that. when i'm done playing, i'll let you know. when we're begging for mercy do you guys stop? no... so i dont want to either. anyway... those are some of the basics.
