In San Jose... Finally!
I got all moved, still have some settling to do of course, but I'm here in San Jose. Friday night I finished packing with my brother Paul and his girlfriend. Saturday we drove to San Jose to where I am now at my brother Jeff's house, and hung out with him and my sister in law, yesterday Jeff and I took my stuff to storage and I helped them clean their garage, then Paul and his gf came over for dinner and we handed out candy. Today i have laundry and settling to do. i found this job that I REALLY want at Google, I about pissed myself when I saw these benefits: http://www.google.com/jobs/benefits.html. Jeff is going to help me tweak my resume for that tonight.As far as Patterson goes... he's been on my nuts all weekend. I think he likes it when I'm bitchy. I got irritated with him, first of all because he didn't come this weekend even though he only had to work friday and monday, which left saturday and sunday off. I went off on him Friday night about his addiction to Everqueer, and his bullshit excuses. I told him about the comment I got about being an Everquest widow and he said that's rediculous, and said the guys that let it take over their lives are stupid, and need to have some control. IS HE FUCKING KIDDING ME?!?!?! I told him to go look in the mirror and say that. So on Saturday he called me and I got irritated with him so I told him i didn't want to listen to him talk to everyone in his house while he's on the phone with me, so i am getting off the phone, i'd talk to him later. After that he called me ALL WEEKEND LONG. i avoided most of his calls just because I wanted him to know how it feels. He asked me what "we're" doing for Thanksgiving and Christmas, I said "well, I'm having Thanksgiving here, and I always go to NM for Christmas." He was like "Oh... um... ok." He also asked me a hundred times this weekend when I can go see him since I don't have a job, I told him unlike him, this is not a vacation for me. My #1 priority is to find a job so I can get a place and life of my own. He told me over and over how he's really going to try to figure out his work schedule so we can see eachother more often, and also keeps asking me to move in with him when he gets his own place. I told him that's not going to happen, #1, because I just moved here, and #2 I told him I'm not a small town girl, and I wouldn't be happy there. I think after I went off on him the other night he kind of realized that I've just about had it with his bullshit. He's intimidated by the fact that I live in this new big place where he knows I have more friends, and he knows he's going to have to work a lot harder to keep me. Which is absolutely true. I'm not going to say that I'm going to go one way or the other right now, because whatever I say I'm sure it the opposite of what I'll really do, so I'll just take it day by day. Right now... I need a job!
